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Unawakened Men

A course for women

A 6-Week Downloadable
Audio Course

with an additional 64 pages of written exercises and meditations created by Soulshaping and Apologies to the Divine Feminine author Jeff Brown

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This course is an invitation.

An invitation to heal. An invitation to release. An invitation to express. An invitation to resolve. An invitation to self-forgive. An invitation to re-open your heart. An invitation to prioritize your own healing. An invitation to empowerment.

An invitation to wholeness.

An invitation to be free of the effects of
unhealed memories and relationships
with unawakened men.

This course is not intended as a bashing of the unawakened man, for we are surely all unawakened in different respects. It is also not intended to suggest that all men are unawakened, or that all women are awakened. BUT it is a grounded recognition of the fact that centuries of warrior conditioning have made it difficult for many men to get below their emotional armor and move from their hearts in their relationships with women. Often without even realizing it, the unconscious masculine leaves an echo of pain, confusion and trauma that lingers with women, impacting on their internal freedom and life satisfaction. This healing course disregards the ‘spiritually correct’ language of ‘non-victimhood’ and ‘all pain is an illusion’, and recognizes that we must claim and heal our wounds before we can move beyond them. Where there is pain and confusion, healing is required. It is that simple and it is that essential. The only way to it is through it. Better we create an environment that invites a deeper excavation of any unresolved emotional material. Better we heal and clear the wounds than accumulate them. Let our quest for healing begin with emotional authenticity.

In this downloadable course, you will… 
  • Heal the effects of unawakened men
  • Express your rightful anger
  • Release & resolve pain and confusion
  • Tools & Meditations for Healing
  • Clarify learnings & lessons
  • Up-frame your experience & re-open your heart. 


This course supports the healing and transformation of the wounds, traumas and negative self-beliefs inflicted by the shadow of the masculine. 

In many ways, this course was birthed by the same energy that fueled Jeff’s 2010 writing called ‘The Apologies to the Divine Feminine (from a warrior in transition)’. This blog was met with a positive viral response world-wide and reflects a growing shift in awareness in the awakening man. We are waking up slowly, but we are beginning to wake up. To read Apologies… 


After the introductory audio, Jeff guides you through this course in a series of stages. You begin with the identification of unresolved experiences and relationships, and then move through five stages of healing and resolution on the path to empowerment and self-love. With tools, exercises, stories and meditations as support, Jeff’s heartfelt and insightful talks create a safe-space for your healing journey. The studio-recorded talks are heart-opening all on their own, and create an environment that invites a deeper penetration of any unresolved emotional material. The listener feels authentically seen and invited in the direction of their own healing and liberation.

6 weekly talks and 64 pages of exercises, meditations and supportive writings:    
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*As an added bonus, Jeff reads THE APOLOGIES TO THE DIVINE FEMININE and includes a group of his most profound and helpful LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP quotes at the back of the written document.

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* A percentage of all sales will go to supporting the wonderful work of Selah Freedom ( Selah Freedom’s mission is to bring awareness to the issue of sex trafficking and to provide a safe place for survivors to heal. They help sexually exploited individuals find their voice and purpose and to reclaim all that was stolen from them through their victimization. They are doing beautiful work in the world. Please check them out.

This course can be helpful for any woman who feels the weight of the wounds and the negative messaging from her experiences with unawakened men, and seeks acknowledgment and support in her efforts to work them through to resolution and freedom. No one should have to carry another person’s baggage. I have been fortunate enough to experience the healing of my wounds with the support of some special women in my life, and one of the reasons I wanted to create this course is because I think men should also support this kind of work in women. In addition, I believe that the ultimate direction for gender is a breaking down of the polarities between us. Gender may be the greatest unresolved battlefield on mother earth, and if we keep standing on the opposite side of the field, the beautiful world we are here to co-create will be lost to us. We must ultimately learn to shed our armor and meet in the middle, recognizing our shared humanness and holding each other’s hearts safe. To reach that stage, we must begin with the healing of what has happened. There is no way around it. Among other things, that healing will require that awakening men share their understanding of the unawakened man with those who have suffered at his hands. I have been him, and sometimes I still am him, and I feel that there is value in sharing my own learnings and insights with women.




Author Bio: A former criminal lawyer and psychotherapist, Jeff Brown is the author of Soulshaping: A Journey of Self-Creation, and a recent book of spiritual graffiti- Ascending with Both Feet on the Ground. Endorsed by Oprah’s Soul Series radio host Elizabeth Lesser, and best-selling authors Oriah Mountain Dreamer and Katherine Woodward Thomas, “Ascending” is a collection of some of Jeff’s most popular spiritual graffiti—quotes, soul-bytes and aphorisms frequently shared in social media. He has been interviewed by CNN radio, appeared on Fox, and written a series of inspirations for ABC’S Good Morning America. He is the author of the viral blog “Apologies to the Divine Feminine (from a warrior in transition)” and the producer and key journeyer in the award winning spiritual documentary – Karmageddon- which also stars Ram Dass, Seane Corn, David Life, Deva Premal and Miten. He is also the owner of the new publishing house ‘Enrealment Press’, which will be distributed by New Leaf Distribution. Their first publication- Love It Forward- will be released on Valentine’s Day, 2014. Endorsed by best-selling authors Carolyn Myss and Andrew Harvey, Love It Forward is Jeff’s second book of spiritual graffiti.


“We are powerful beyond measure, and so deeply vulnerable at the same time. This may seem like a dichotomy, but it isn’t. We have misunderstood real power. It has been something assertive, non-surrendering, pushing on through. This is not real power. This is simply willfulness. Real power is something else—receptivity, open-ness, the courage to keep your heart open on the darkest of days, the courage to work through unresolved emotions, the strength to feel it all even when the odds are stacked against you. Real power is showing up with your heart on your sleeve and absolutely refusing to waste one moment of your life hidden behind edginess and armour. The art of enheartened presence. Now that’s power.”


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For those not familiar with audio downloads, it is very simple. After you sign up, a code will be sent to the email you provide. You click the code and the course easily downloads to your computer. In the download are six separate MP3 classes, and a printable 64 page written document with optional exercises and meditations in PDF.

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